Author: Charming Men

Handsome rancher in his early fifties with silver hair, a short silver beard and blue eyes standing beside a small Mongolian horse on the vast green steppe at golden hour

I Entered the Longest Horse Race on Earth at 52 Years Old: 1,000 Kilometers Across Mongolia on 25 Half-Wild Horses. On Day Six, I Had to Choose Between Winning and a Stranger

It’s called the hardest horse race in the world. Ten days, a thousand kilometers of Mongolian steppe, twenty-five different half-wild horses, and no roads. I’d spent my whole life on horseback in Nebraska, and I thought that was enough. By day three, I knew it wasn’t.

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Handsome Texas cattle auctioneer in his mid fifties with silver hair, a trimmed silver mustache and gray eyes wearing a white cowboy hat and a pressed shirt in front of the historic Fort Worth Stockyards at golden hour

I’ve Called Cattle Auctions in Fort Worth for 30 Years. Last Spring I Caught a Bidder Cheating, and When I Saw Who It Was, I Wished I’d Never Looked Up

An auctioneer sees everything from the block. Every nod, every finger, every ear tug that means a bid. Last spring at the Fort Worth Stockyards, I saw a man bidding against his own cattle to run up the price on an old widow who didn’t know any better. He was my sister’s husband.

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Handsome bachelor rancher in his late forties with dark wavy hair, light stubble and hazel eyes leaning on a wooden fence next to a palomino horse among Sonoma vineyards at golden hour

My Horse Escaped 14 Times in One Month, and Every Time I Found Him in the Garden of the Same Woman. She Was a Retired Opera Singer, and She Was Not Amused

My gelding Bandit has never jumped a fence in his life. Then a woman bought the old farmhouse next to my ranch in Sonoma, and every morning at nine, he was gone. I’d find him standing in her rose garden, ears forward, completely hypnotized. It took me fourteen escapes to find out why.

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Handsome Latino radio host in his mid forties with dark hair, a short dark beard with gray in it and brown eyes standing outside a small desert radio station under a tall antenna at golden hour in West Texas

Every Night at 2 a.m., the Same Caller Asked My Radio Station to Play the Same Song for “Rosa.” He Never Gave His Name. After 300 Nights, I Found Out Who Rosa Was

I host the overnight show on a tiny radio station in the West Texas desert. Truckers, insomniacs and ranch hands are my whole audience. For three hundred nights, an old man called at exactly 2 a.m. and asked me to play the same 1974 song “for Rosa.” Then one night, he didn’t call.

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Handsome rescue diver in his mid forties with short dark hair, light stubble and blue-gray eyes standing on a wooden dock above a crystal-clear blue Florida spring at golden hour, wearing a wetsuit pulled down to the waist

Two Divers Were Trapped 300 Feet Inside a Flooded Cave in Florida With 40 Minutes of Air Left. I’m the Man They Call When the Rescue Is Probably Already Too Late

Under the crystal-clear springs of North Florida, there are miles of flooded caves. They’re beautiful, and they kill people every year. When two college students went in without the right training and didn’t come out, the sheriff called me. Not because I’m the best. Because I’m the closest.

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Handsome Hispanic stonemason in his early fifties with dark hair streaked with gray, a short salt-and-pepper beard and dark eyes standing in front of an old adobe mission church in Santa Fe at golden hour, dusty work shirt with sleeves rolled up

The City of Santa Fe Gave the Same 300-Year-Old Church to Two Restorers. She Did the Glass, I Did the Stone, and We Both Wanted the Other One Fired

I’ve rebuilt adobe and stone walls in New Mexico for twenty-eight years. I don’t work with partners. Then the city hired a stained-glass artist from San Francisco to restore the windows of the same 300-year-old church, on the same deadline, and she started by telling me my scaffolding was in her light.

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Handsome former jockey in his early fifties with short sandy gray hair, light stubble and blue eyes leaning on a white fence beside a tall black thoroughbred in rolling Ohio farmland at golden hour

The Vet Said My Blind Racehorse Should Be Put Down. A Little Goat From the Farm Next Door Disagreed, and Moved Into His Stall

Midnight Charlie won eleven races. Then he went blind in both eyes, and his owner wanted him gone. I took him to my little rescue farm in Ohio, and for two weeks he wouldn’t eat, wouldn’t walk and wouldn’t stop shaking. Then a runaway pygmy goat named Biscuit walked into his stall and decided she was his new eyes.

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Handsome freight train engineer in his late forties with short brown hair graying at the temples, a short beard and gray-blue eyes standing beside a big orange and black locomotive in a Colorado rail yard at golden hour

I Found a 15-Year-Old Boy Hiding in the Nose of My Locomotive, 200 Miles From Anywhere in the Rocky Mountains. He Said If I Stopped the Train, He’d Jump

I drive freight trains through the Rocky Mountains. Ten thousand tons, two miles long, through tunnels and canyons where no road goes. One night, in the middle of the Moffat Tunnel route, my conductor opened the nose door of the lead locomotive and found a boy curled up inside with a backpack and a black eye.

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Handsome rugged man in his mid forties with sun-streaked brown hair, a short beard and green eyes standing beside a bay mustang and a pack mule at a desert trailhead at golden hour

I Rode a Horse From Mexico to Canada. 2,650 Miles, Five Months, One Horse, One Mule and No Plan B. I Was 45, Single and Everybody Said I Was Running Away

The Pacific Crest Trail runs from the Mexican border to Canada through deserts, snow and the highest mountains in California. A few hikers finish it every year. Almost nobody does it on horseback. I decided to try, with a mustang named Scout, a mule named Pancho and absolutely no idea what I was doing.

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